Trevor's Journal: The Patch

In Trevor's Words: USO With You All the Way Tour In Germany

We recently completed our spring portion of the  With You All the Way tour. We spoke to about 15000 kids, all of them overseas. This portion of the tour had somewhat of a bittersweet ending. The good news is that we get to rest a little bit over the summer. The bad news is that we are going to miss being around this brave group of kids for a while. Plus, a number of bases we visited are closing or consolidating which means big changes for the military and many of the families.

We were in three cities in central Germany, Weisbaden, Heidelberg, and Stuttgart. The Heidelberg area is home to two elementary schools, Manheim Elementary school and Patrick Henry Elementary school. Manheim Elementary is closing its doors this year. Due to the army drawdown and plans for realignment in Europe, schools and bases are closing down. It has been open since 1946. In the early nineties it had about 2000 students. Today, there are only about 200, and those kids will be moving somewhere else next year. In fact, many are having to move now, back to the states and many know they are moving but don’t know where they are going. We spoke to one little girl, who towards the end of the presentation, finally had the courage to say something. Her dad was currently deployed, and she  andher mom were having to move to Colorado in the next couple of days. She was petrified, and rightfully so. I can’t imagine have my family be uprooted to a somewhere far away while I was deployed to Afghanistan and not able to offer any help. However, because the little girl had the courage to speak up, we were able to offer some assistance and expedite shipping of her USO family empowerment pack so she could have it for her travels.

Patrick Henry Elementary school is also going to close soon. These families are really in a state of flux because they know they are going to have to move but don’t know when and don’t know where. Living in this state of uncertainty is causing much stress on a lot of families. We had two great presentations at Patrick Henry. The kids were so engaged and had plenty to say. One thing that stood out in particular for me though, was a shy little girl in the back who had the courage to raise her hand.  We ask the kids what they learned during the video portion of our presentation. So she felt the need to say something. I asked, what she learned and very quietly but confidently said, “You don’t have to be in a special group to be special. “ Wow, I hope everyone can learn from that."

We spent our last couple of days in Stuttgart. We had no idea how big Stuttgart was. There is about 5 million people in the city and surrounding area. Stuttgart is a beautiful city. It is where old meets new. Buildings that are 700 years old living happily with very modern buildings. We went to a school called Patch Elementary, on the Patch military base, which is a large army base. We had some really good presentations again. But we want to leave you with one email we received from a mom. It really makes us feel good about what we are doing and how important the work the USO is doing for military families.

Dear Mr. Romain,
Thank you for coming to Patch Elementary School in Stuttgart.  My son did not stop talking about your visit all the way home in the car.  Then something happened when we got to the house.  You see my husband was hurt and he lost part of his leg and my son seems ashamed and angry about what happened. He always wanted to take his anger out by himself and stay locked in his room alone and did not want to deal with his dad.  And it was so hard for my husband.  He said that kind of pain was worse than his injury. Today when he came home my son wrote a letter to his dad and said he loved him and wanted to help him get better. I’m not sure what you said to him but thank you and Mr. Woody and the USO for your presentation and for helping our kids on the bases.  You just don’t know how much it means to us.I cannot thank you enough for your help.

 - Trevor Romain
Award-Winning Children's Author
Co-Founder, The Comfort Crew for Military Kids

Trevor's Office

Our Co-Founder, Trevor Romain, is an extremely creative guy. He is responsible for the creation of all of the animated characters that comprise the crew (and countless others), and his travel journal resembles a professionally designed comic book (he calls them sketches). In the journals developed for our Comfort Kits, Trevor encourages doodling as a form of expression of emotion, and we've found it can be just as powerful as writing down words - sometimes even more so.

After moving into new offices, we noticed that Trevor's walls are the kind of eggshell white normally reserved for doctor's office waiting rooms. As you can imagine, Trevor aims to change this. His plan is to turn his office into one giant doodle. I'll be taking pictures and keeping track of his progress so you can see how he can turn even the dullest of rooms into a work of art!

We love to see everyone else's doodles too - send me yours at beth@comfortcrew.org and I'll post those along with the pictures of Trevor's office.

The whole office - the first doodle is starting in the upper middle corner

The beginning of his doodling, in the corner of the room

Trevor's Thoughts from Tokyo

A few days a ago I visited a sweet, quiet and peaceful little shrine right in the middle of a bustling and vibrant Tokyo.

While I was there I lit a candle for a young girl I spoke with after one of our USO performances here in Japan.

Her father was recently injured in Afghanistan and has a traumatic brain injury. She told me sometimes he knows who she is and on some days when she goes into his room he says, "Who are you?"

I will never forget the look on her face when she told me that. How he sometimes looks at her and has no clue who she is. The deep sadness in her big brown eyes and her torrent of tears really made my heart hurt so much for her.

Hugging her for her dad was the least I could do. I am so grateful that the USO tour gives us the opportunity to comfort and support kids like her.

Please light a little candle of hope in your heart for her. And for all the children (no matter their religion or nationality) in the world who have lost their parents, have a sick parent or have a parent who has been injured in some way. Bless their little hearts.

- Trevor Romain, Co-founder of The Comfort Crew for Military Kids
Trevor is currently on an international tour with the USO.